Assumptions

Gossips no matter how stupid can spread like wildfire.

Funny when people, even if there is no proof of who is guilty assumes or pre-supposes that the other party is the one guilty just based on popularity and public support.

In NLP/ Hypnosis terms we call this pre-suppositions. 

Remember the time, when a friend tells you something bad about a common friend? 

And even if its just a 'chismis' the moment you see that person you act and treat the person /pre-judged it the way he/she was described to you even if it's not proven. 

Ridiculously, even if its not true people buy into the gossip and still see and treat the other person the way the other person was described.

People, even if its just an assumption, treats people as if they are already guilty just based on an emotional nonobjective response.

That is how gossip/chismis, assumption are very dangerous.

It could make or break a relationship or an image of a person.

That is how predictable people are.

Be careful.

Thou shall not judge.

Life as It is

"If you stop seeing things in terms of what you like and what you don't like 

and see things for what they truly are and not what you expect them to be, 

you will feel a great deal of peace in your mind 

and in your heart for the rest of your life."

-SirYuri

Most people see and experience life the way they were programmed or conditioned to respond to it.

If you see life as a Capitalist, Businessman, Politician, Martial artist, Athlete or a Muslim, Christian, Catholic or a Jew you are experiencing life in a prejudiced way.

A Politician will look at people as votes, Business people will see people as business deals. A competitive martial artist or athlete will see people as competition.

There is a barrier, a layer between reality and You because, you no longer see or touch it directly.

Let's take it up a notch.

A person who is happy will see and respond to people in a happy manner.

A peaceful person will respond peacefully to people, situations and things.

However, an aggressive, irritated, emotional negative person will more often than not see people and respond to situations in a manner that he/she is programmed or conditioned to be.

People or children will never be aggressive, irritated, negative or emotional if nobody taught or practiced these things on them.

You see and respond to people and things not as they are but as you are programmed or conditioned to respond. Let go of your programming and your judgement will drop and you will see reality.