Work and Programming

If you go home from work tired, struggling, pressured or just plainly having a bad day what happens is that you are "programming" the people in your home that life is hard and working will make you feel bad and makes your body tired and sick.

If you are a parent this is even worse.

You are sending a signal to your child that working is stressful and providing for the family makes you unhealthy and makes you have no more time for your family.

That means when your child grows up he/she is already set up for a life of struggle, stress and hardship.

However, if you enjoy what you do and making money to you feels good and fun what are you telling the people you spend time with? Correct! You are sending them a unconscious signal that life is good and working hard feels great and makes you happier and healthy.

You have to remember that whatever you are feeling and doing right now to make money sets up a program in your child's eye that they will eventually adapt when they start to work when they grow up. 

So makes sure that what you do makes you feel good and will leave a positive example to you family.

That is why I always advocate finding something that makes you money to provide and also that you love doing it.

So, if you don't enjoy what you do, you either change what you are doing or change your attitude towards it because the life you save could be your loved ones and the future generations.

Do you want to leave a positive example or a negative one?

Think about it.

Men Wants "Alone Time"

This post will help you understand men and women.

That means We men retreat to our cave from time to time. We don't want to be with our girl 24/7.

Being alone could mean hanging out with our friends, playing games, running our own errands or just simply doing our thing.

However, girls treat us like their girl friends. Girls wants to be with their guy 24/7 and this is what drives men crazy and often times leads to misunderstandings and fights.

Women thinks and treats their men like one of their girls which shouldn't be the case.

If you're a women and you are reading this if your man wants to be alone or wants to get away from you sometimes that doesn't mean that they love you less.

God created us this way.

God intentionally built our bodies this way and it's not our fault.

For us men we understand that when one of our guy friends wants to be alone it just means that he just wants to be alone. We don't interpret it negatively.

For women, this will be a guide. For you to understand your man a bit more. And if you understand your man you will be able to keep him attracted to you.

Billionaire Jack Ma's Advice

Billionaire Jack Ma's (founder of Alibaba) Shares What type of people yo should and shouldn't work with




10 types of people you should work with

Those who are good friends with you whom you can easily talk with
Those who share the same life values as you
Those whom you can trust and understand
Those whom you can communicate easily when issue arises
Those who are as dedicated as you are
Those who are as magnanimous as you are
Those who share the same interests as you
Those who support you wholeheartedly
Those who have a standard of professionalism
Those who share the same vision and beliefs as you




5 types of people you shouldn’t work with

Don’t work with people who are selfish. They only care about themselves and disregard the contributions by others.
Don’t work with people who do not have a purpose in life. They are materialistic and only care about earning money.
Don’t work with people who lack compassion. They are greedy and selfish and working with them will be unhappy.
Don’t work with people who are pessimistic. They will diminish your positive outlook.
Don’t work with people without any life principles. They don’t believe in dreams and can easily succumb to temptations and give in to challenges in life.




11 types of people you shouldn’t be helping

Those who are ungrateful
Those who betray their principles for money
Those who gain at the expense of others
Those who have a hidden agenda
Those who will do anything for benefits at the expense of principles
Those who are unreliable, those who act pitiful when they need help, but become tyrannous when things are in their favour
Those who couldn’t complete the small tasks but dream of completing the big goals
Those who pin their hopes on others
Those who never fulfil their obligations after receiving help
Those who still act pitiful when given opportunities
Those who don’t feel grateful and take everything for granted



Source: https://sg.finance.yahoo.com/news/billionaire-jack-ma-shares-type-073040440.html