Men Wants "Alone Time"

This post will help you understand men and women.

That means We men retreat to our cave from time to time. We don't want to be with our girl 24/7.

Being alone could mean hanging out with our friends, playing games, running our own errands or just simply doing our thing.

However, girls treat us like their girl friends. Girls wants to be with their guy 24/7 and this is what drives men crazy and often times leads to misunderstandings and fights.

Women thinks and treats their men like one of their girls which shouldn't be the case.

If you're a women and you are reading this if your man wants to be alone or wants to get away from you sometimes that doesn't mean that they love you less.

God created us this way.

God intentionally built our bodies this way and it's not our fault.

For us men we understand that when one of our guy friends wants to be alone it just means that he just wants to be alone. We don't interpret it negatively.

For women, this will be a guide. For you to understand your man a bit more. And if you understand your man you will be able to keep him attracted to you.

Billionaire Jack Ma's Advice

Billionaire Jack Ma's (founder of Alibaba) Shares What type of people yo should and shouldn't work with




10 types of people you should work with

Those who are good friends with you whom you can easily talk with
Those who share the same life values as you
Those whom you can trust and understand
Those whom you can communicate easily when issue arises
Those who are as dedicated as you are
Those who are as magnanimous as you are
Those who share the same interests as you
Those who support you wholeheartedly
Those who have a standard of professionalism
Those who share the same vision and beliefs as you




5 types of people you shouldn’t work with

Don’t work with people who are selfish. They only care about themselves and disregard the contributions by others.
Don’t work with people who do not have a purpose in life. They are materialistic and only care about earning money.
Don’t work with people who lack compassion. They are greedy and selfish and working with them will be unhappy.
Don’t work with people who are pessimistic. They will diminish your positive outlook.
Don’t work with people without any life principles. They don’t believe in dreams and can easily succumb to temptations and give in to challenges in life.




11 types of people you shouldn’t be helping

Those who are ungrateful
Those who betray their principles for money
Those who gain at the expense of others
Those who have a hidden agenda
Those who will do anything for benefits at the expense of principles
Those who are unreliable, those who act pitiful when they need help, but become tyrannous when things are in their favour
Those who couldn’t complete the small tasks but dream of completing the big goals
Those who pin their hopes on others
Those who never fulfil their obligations after receiving help
Those who still act pitiful when given opportunities
Those who don’t feel grateful and take everything for granted



Source: https://sg.finance.yahoo.com/news/billionaire-jack-ma-shares-type-073040440.html

Gautama Buddha on Love

-from the book Life and Teaching of the Masters of the Far East

The Island Where All Feelings Lived

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; happiness, sadness, knowledge, and all the others, including love. One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island paradise until the last possible moment.

When the island was almost totally under, love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help. Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, can I come with you on your boat?"

Richness answered, " I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you anywhere."

Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel.Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please." "I can't help you", Vanity said, " You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."

Next, Love saw Sadness passing by. Love said, " Sadness, please let me go with you." Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now."

Then, Love saw Happiness. Love cried out, " Happiness, please take me with you." But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him.

Love began to cry. Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder.
Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name.

When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder. Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?" "It was Time", Knowledge answered. "But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked. Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is." 

- A Peaceful Warrior

Proverbs 3:3

"Do not let kindness and truth leave you;

Bind them around your neck,

Write them on the tablet of your heart."

-Proverbs 3:3

LOSING CONTROL

If you wish to understand control, think of a little child that is given a taste for drugs. As the drugs penetrate the body of the child, it becomes addicted; its whole being cries out for the drug. To be without the drug is so unbearable a torment that it seems preferable to die.


Think of that image - the body has gotten addicted to the drug.


Now this is exactly what your society did to you when you were born.


You were not allowed to enjoy the solid, nutritious food of life namely, work, play, fun, laughter, the company of people, the pleasures of the senses and the mind. You were given a taste for the drug called approval, appreciation, attention.
















I'm going to quote a great man here, a man named A. S. Neill. He is the author of Summerhill. Neill says that the sign of a sick child is that he is always hovering around his parents; he is interested in persons.


The healthy child has no interest in persons, he is interested in things.


When a child is sure of his mother's love, he forgets his mother; he goes out to explore the world; he is curious.


He looks for a frog to put in his mouth - that kind of thing. When a child is hovering around his mother, it's a bad sign; he's insecure.












Maybe his mother has been trying to suck love out of him, not give him all the freedom and assurance he wants. His mother's always been threatening in many subtle ways to abandon him.


So we were given a taste of various drug addictions: approval, attention, success, making it to the top, prestige, getting your name in the paper, power, being the boss. We were given a taste of things like being the captain of the team, leading the band, etc.


Having a taste for these drugs, we became addicted and began to dread losing them.


Recall the lack of control you felt, the terror at the prospect of failure or of making mistakes, at the prospect of criticism by others.


So you became cravenly dependent on others and you lost your freedom. Others now have the power to make you happy or miserable. You crave your drugs, but as much as you hate the suffering that this involves, you find yourself completely helpless.


There is never a minute when, consciously or unconsciously, you are not aware of or attuned to the reactions of others, marching to the beat of their drums.


A nice definition of an awakened person: a person who no longer marches to the drums of society, a person who dances to the tune of the music that springs up from within.












When you are ignored or disapproved of, you experience a loneliness so unbearable that you crawl back to people and beg for the comforting drug called support and encouragement' reassurance.


To live with people in this state involves a never-ending tension. "Hell is other people", said Sartre. How true.


When you are in this state of dependency, you always have to be on your best behavior, you can never let your hair down; you've got to live up to expectations.


To be with people is to live in tension. To be without them brings the agony of loneliness, because you miss them.


You have lost your capacity to see them exactly as they are and to respond to them accurately, because your perception of them is clouded by the need to get your drugs.


You see them insofar as they are a support for getting your drug or a threat to have your drug removed.


You're always looking at people, consciously or unconsciously, through these eyes. Will I get what I want from them, will I not get what I want from them? And if they can neither support nor threaten my drug, I'm not interested in them. That's a horrible thing to say, but I wonder if there's anyone here of whom this cannot be said.


-Fr. Anthony De Mello

Surround Yourself with Quality People

Raise the quality of the people you spend time with and it will greatly change your life.

Look at your relationships and the people around you and ask "What is this relationship doing to me?"

Is it helping me raise my standards to a high quality life? or not?

If the answer is good then stay, if the answer is bad then look for someone who has a better quality.

You are the average of the 5 people you spend your time with everyday.

The quality of your character, finances, attitude, mood, health and spirituality could be influenced by the quality of the people you spend time with.

If you spend with low quality individuals, with low quality dream, with low quality health, with low quality attitudes, with low quality communication skills, with low quality habits, with low quality spirituality guess what... you will manifest a low quality life.

If you spend time with high quality individuals then a high quality life is waiting for you. High Quality finance, health, habits, attitudes, spirituality, communication skills is available to you if you spend time with high quality people.

The great question is... "What is this relationship/friends doing to me? is it a high quality or a low quality?"

Make sure find and spend your time with Quality people who makes you achieve and become more than you can be. To help you become better than you were yesterday.

Find these people and never let them go.

Progress Does Not Mean Change

The human race is no intelligent 100 years ago or 1000 years ago.

Although, yes, mankind and those who we consider intelligent have solved a lot of problems.

Look around you, there have been a lot of improvements. 

Technology has improved. Transportation has improved, it became more convenient. We have solved the problem of making money.  And organization all over the world keeps growing by the thousands everyday. We also have become more convenient in our daily lives.



But tell me, has these intelligent people that we consider have solved the problem of human Depression? Anxiety? Stress? Loneliness? Hate? Anger? Jealousy? Irritation? Separation? Criticism? Condemnation and Judgement? Negativity?

Ask yourself, has there any improvement in that area of irritation, depression, loneliness perhaps, criticism?

Mankind is like inside a never ending mobious loop. The same vicious cycle occurring over and over again.

If you'll ask me, it seems that not so much has changed.

What we have right now are the same human beings 100 years ago just more money, technology, convenience, influence and power.. but still lonely, depressed, stressed, lonely, angry, irritated, judgmental and negative. But still they haven't changed a bit inside.

Do you think more knowledge or intelligence or will change the world? We have the internet and and great gurus, teachers, speakers, books, organizations and all the information we need but still not much has changed.

Do you think more money will change the world? I doubt it. Do you think more religion will change the world? We have so many but still its the same. Do you think technology will change the world? Certainly not. Do you think power or skills will change it? hmm..

Here is a simple formula and I want you to contemplate on it and allow it to sink deep in your consciousness to get the full benefit of if.

Self-control and Self-correction.

The Secret to Success and Fortune

"Serve those who serve others."

Brotherhood

The true essence of brotherhood is not in just being exclusive with the members of an organization or group or sect or community.

The truth is, we are all brothers under one universe and one God. Brotherhood is a principle. Means that, wherever you may go or whomever you come in contact with treat them as if they are your own brother.

Remember the Golden Rule.

Do unto others what you want others to do unto you.

Taking Responsibility

I AM GOOD

I was recently told of an African tribe that does the most beautiful thing.

When someone does something hurtful and wrong, they take the person to the center of town, and the entire tribe comes and surrounds him. For two days they’ll tell the man every good thing he has ever done.

The tribe believes that every human being comes into the world as GOOD, each of us desiring safety, love, peace, happiness.

But sometimes in the pursuit of those things people make mistakes. The community sees misdeeds as a cry for help.

They band together for the sake of their fellow man to hold him up, to reconnect him with his true Nature, to remind him who he really is, until he fully remembers the truth from which he'd temporarily been disconnected: "I AM GOOD"

source: A Peaceful Warrior

News on Vaccines

The pro-Pharma mainstream media would like everyone to believe that doctors and "scientists" all agree that vaccines are safe and effective, and that dissenters are uneducated or uninformed parents.

Not true. Doctors and scientist who dare to speak out against the status quo, putting their own careers in jeopardy for telling the other side of the story, are of course few, and clearly in the minority. But that does not mean they do not exist. It just means they are few in number, because they value truth and the health and well-being of the public more than their careers and financial connections to the pharmaceutical industry.

Leslie Manookian, producer of "The Greater Good" film, lists over 150 scientists and physicians who have questioned vaccines publicly.

Below, we bring you short videos from three different doctors who all do an excellent job of summarizing the "other side" of the story when it comes to vaccines. You will not see this anywhere in the mainstream media:

Source: https://www.facebook.com/CoconutHealth

More Info: HealthImpactnews.com 

The Dog and The Baby

A dog was so faithful that the woman could leave her baby with it and go out to attend other matters. She always returned to find the child soundly asleep with the dog faithfully watching over him. One day something tragic happened.

The woman as usual, left the baby in the "hands" of this faithful dog and went out shopping. When she returned, she discovered rather a nasty scene, there was a total mess. The baby's cot was dismantled, his nappies and clothes torn to shreds with blood stains all over the bedroom where she left the child and the dog. Shocked, the woman wailed as she began looking for the baby.

All of a sudden, she saw the faithful dog emerging from under the bed. It was covered with blood and licking it's mouth as if it had just finished a delicious meal.

The woman got angry and assumed that the dog had devoured her baby. Without much thought she beat the dog with a wood to death. But as she continued searching for the"remains" of her child, she beheld another scene.

Close to the bed was the baby who, although lying bare floor, was safe and under the bed where the body of a snake was torn to pieces in what had been a fierce battle between the snake and the dog which was now dead. Then reality dawned on the woman who now began to understand what took place in her absence. The dog fought to protect the baby from the ravenous snake.

It was too late for her now to make amends because, in her impatience and anger, she had killed the faithful dog. How often have we misjudged people and torn them to shreds with harsh words and deeds before we have had time to evaluate the situation?

This is called SIN OF PRESUMPTION Presuming things our way without taking the trouble to find out exactly what the situation really is. Little patience can drastically reduce major lifelong mistakes. Who Are You misjudging right now?. Don't think what you think others are thinking. Take time to get the whole truth.

Source: PinoyRapRadio

Money Magnifies

Money doesn't change who you are, it just magnifies your personality.




Oprah Winfrey and Robert Kiyosaki agrees that.. Money magnifies who you are.

That means, if you are insecure, impatient, jealous, impolite, arrogant, low self esteem, no self-confidence, fearful, angry, unhappy, irritated and emotional or just plain negative when you have no money, guess what? Yes, you will become more of that when you have money.

On the other hand,

If you have a positive character like high self-esteem, confident, loving, well mannered, patient, fun, happy, humble, poised, aware,logically practical then you could expect to become more positive in your overall attitude in every trait that you have.

Money will never repair a poor character.

I realized this the first time I made my million. I said to my self  "Is this it? I thought becoming a millionaire is all there is in this world." <- That is when it hit me. I realized I'm still me just more money but still have the same internal issues.

It slowly dawned on me that money is just money yes it will help economically but that about it.

Money will not buy you good manners. Money will not buy you loyal friends. Money will not buy you a loving family. Money will never buy you patience. Money will never buy you love. Money will never buy you confidence. Money will never buy you security. Money will never buy you peace of mind. Money will never buy you self-control. Money will never buy you intelligence or wisdom. 

Money will not solve your insecurities about yourself. Money will not solve you anger towards another human being. Money will not solve your lac of self-confidence. Money will not solve your irritation or impatience. Money will not solve a bad attitude.

Money will never solve your personal issues, but money is but an economic tool for our material needs and that's about it.

The world was just conditioned and programmed by the media that money alone will solve the worlds problems which is so untrue. Not because the economy is doing well translates to a happy country or nation.

So choose a company, a leader, a mentor or an organization that not only guides you to make money but also promotes character building and helps you to become better and more loving individuals of our nation.

And, while making money is good, make sure to invest also in the development of your character. Be a person of substance not just a person of sugar (money) Because, when your time is up here on earth to go to our source, you will never bring all the money you produce. So when money is all gone what is left?

The best version of you!

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Asparagus for cancer? -- Who knew?

Subject: Asparagus DO NOT FAIL TO READ THIS AND SEND TO YOUR FAMILY &FRIENDS.

When I was in the USN, I was stationed in Key West, FL. I worked at the clinic at Naval Air Station on Big Coppitt Key just a few miles north of Key West. The hospital at Key West was for out- patients only, for retired armed forces personnel that lived in the area. If you needed to be hospitalized you were sent to Homestead AFB Florida. 

I had the day off and just went inside the hospital (Corpman barracks were next to hospital). There was a retired Navy man that worked in the lab and he was very interesting gentleman to talk with. He was a retired biochemist from the USN. He asked me what was going on that day,and I said I had the day off. I wish I was working, as the crew on, today was taking a sailor to Homestead as he had a very bad kidney infection.

Now this elderly gent told me the man should have eaten more asparagus, and he wouldn't have that problem. I asked why? I'll never forget him saying, do you eat asparagus? and I said yes, I love them. He replied you notice how your urine stinks after eating asparagus? I said well I never thought it was what I ate but yes it does have a pungent odor. He said, It is because it is detoxifying your body of harmful chemicals!!! 

This was back in 1986 when I was stationed there and to read this email again I had to share this story...

Eat more asparagus, my friends.



Asparagus -- Who knew?

My Mom had been taking the full-stalk canned style asparagus, pureed it and took 4 tablespoons in the morning and 4 tablespoons later in the day. She did this for over a month. She is on chemo pills for Stage 3 lung cancer in the pleural area and her cancer cell count went from 386 down to 125 as of this past week. Her oncologist said she will not need to see him for 3 months.



THE ARTICLE:

Several years ago I met a man seeking asparagus for a friend who had cancer. He gave me a copy of an article, entitled "Asparagus For Cancer" printed in the Cancer News Journal, December 1979. I will share it here, just as it was shared with me: I am a biochemist, and have specialized in the relation of diet to health for over 50 years. Several years ago, I learned of the discovery of Richard R. Vensal, D.D.S. that asparagus might cure cancer. Since then, I have worked with him on his project. We have accumulated a number of favorable case histories. Here are a few examples:



Case No. 1,
A man with an almost hopeless case of Hodgkin's disease (cancer of the lymph glands) who was completely incapacitated. Within 1 year of starting the asparagus therapy, his doctors were unable to detect any signs of cancer, and he was back on a schedule of strenuous exercise



Case No. 2,
A successful businessman, 68 years old, suffered from cancer of the bladder for 16 years. After years of medical treatments, including radiation without improvement, he began taking asparagus. Within 3 months, examinations revealed that his bladder tumor had disappeared and that his kidneys were normal.



Case No. 3,
On March 5th 1971, a man who had lung cancer was put on the operating table where they found lung cancer so widely spread that it was inoperable. The surgeon sewed him up and declared his case hopeless. On April 5th he heard about the Asparagus therapy and immediately started taking it. By August, x-ray pictures revealed that all signs of the cancer had disappeared. He is now back at his regular business routine.

Case No. 4,
A woman had been troubled for a number of years with skin cancer. She developed different skin cancers which were diagnosed by the acting specialist as advanced. Within 3 months after beginning asparagus therapy, the skin specialist said her skin looked fine with no more skin lesions. This woman reported that the asparagus therapy also cured her kidney disease, which had started in 1949. She had over 10 operations for kidney stones, and was receiving government disability payments for an inoperable, terminal, kidney condition. She attributes the cure of this kidney trouble entirely to the asparagus treatment.



I was not surprised at this result as `The elements of materia medica', edited in 1854 by a Professor at the University of Pennsylvania, stated that asparagus was used as a popular remedy for kidney stones. He even referred to experiments, in 1739, on the power of asparagus in dissolving stones. Note the dates! ---We would have other case histories but the medical establishment has interfered with our obtaining some of the records. I am therefore appealing to readers to spread this good news and help us to gather a large number of case histories that will overwhelm the medical skeptics about this unbelievably simple and natural remedy.



For the treatment, asparagus should be cooked before using. Fresh or canned asparagus can be used. I have corresponded with the two leading canners of asparagus, Giant and Stokely, and I am satisfied that these brands contain no pesticides or preservatives. Place the cooked asparagus in a blender and liquefy to make a puree. Store in the refrigerator. Give the patient 4 full tablespoons twice daily, morning and evening. Patients usually show some improvement in 2-4 weeks. It can be diluted with water and used as a cold or hot drink. This suggested dosage is based on present experience, but certainly larger amounts can do no harm and may be needed in some cases.



As a biochemist I am convinced of the old saying that `what cures can prevent.' Based on this theory, my wife and I have been using asparagus puree as a beverage with our meals. We take 2 tablespoons diluted in water to suit our taste with breakfast and with dinner. I take mine hot and my wife prefers hers cold. For years we have made it a practice to have blood surveys taken as part of our regular checkups. The last blood survey, taken by a medical doctor who specializes in the nutritional approach to health, showed substantial improvements in all categories over the last one, and we can attribute these improvements to nothing but the asparagus drink. As a biochemist, I have made an extensive study of all aspects of cancer, and all of the proposed cures. As a result, I am convinced that asparagus fits in better with the latest theories about cancer.



Asparagus contains a good supply of protein called histones, which are believed to be active in controlling cell growth. For that reason, I believe asparagus can be said to contain a substance that I call cell growth normalizer. That accounts for its action on cancer and in acting as a general body tonic. In any event, regardless of theory, asparagus used as we suggest, is a harmless substance. The FDA cannot prevent you from using it and it may do you much good. It has been reported by the US National Cancer Institute, that asparagus is the highest tested food containing glutathione, which is considered one of the body's most potent anticarcinogens and antioxidants.



Just a side note... In case you are wondering why this has not been made public, there is no profit in curing cancer.



Please send this article to everyone in your Address Book. The most unselfish act one can ever do is paying forward all the kindness one has received.

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HEALTH - THE ONLY IMMUNITY

HEALTH - THE ONLY IMMUNITY





A word of warning. What you are about to read is very ideal, but then if direction is what you seek, then knowledge of the ideal becomes essential.

If a child develops measles, chicken pox, whooping cough, mumps, rubella or any of the other common childhood infections, it is not because of germs, but because of the accumulated toxic waste within its body, a condition known as Toxaemia. It therefore stands to reason that the prevention of childhood infection is only possible by preventing the development of toxaemia, or in other words, by preserving or restoring the PHYSIOLOGICAL HEALTH of the body.

Physiological health is a bodily state in which all of the inner organs and cells are working at full capacity and where there are no genetic or hereditary defects. It is a state in which the musculoskeletal system is in correct balance and alignment, a state in which there is correct nutritional status and blood alkalinity, and a state in which the cells and tissues are free from accumulated waste products.

On a physical level, this is what true health is all about, and when a child's body is in this condition, then no matter how many germs it is exposed to, it cannot and will not get sick! The reason being is that the child's body does not carry the accumulated toxic wastes that would allow the germs to thrive and flourish, and out of which infection arises.

Not only will the child be immune to all infections, but when the child's body is in this condition, it will experience maximum vitality which is essential if the child is ever to fulfill its true potential. It is therefore necessary for parents to be aware of those measures which preserve or restore the physiological health of the body.

Those measures include; exclusive breastmilk in the infant, and after transition,a diet in which at least 80% consists of fresh fruit and salad vegetables (preferably organic), the drinking of pure unfluoridated water, daily exposure to sun and fresh air, correct breathing habits, physical activities which promote strength and fitness, sufficient rest and sleep, and above all else, a state of of happiness - cause if you aint happy, you aint healthy! Needless to say, this is easier said than done but then if optimum health is one's goal, then one must know the path.

Parents should also realize that if there is sickness in a child, regardless of its type or nature, the adoption of these measures can greatly improve the child's quality of health. With regard to conditions like asthma, allergies, eczema, hyperactivity, recurrent infections, attention deficit disorder and many of the other common childhood illnesses, then the adoption of these measures can lead to complete recovery.

Now I have no doubt that some parents will be a little disheartened with this philosophy for they know that they are not yet ready to impose these disciplines upon themselves or their children. Such parents should keep in mind that if their child does develop measles, chicken pox or any of the others, then it is not something to fear but something to welcome for it is a sign that their child's vitality is strong and that its body is simply engaged in some internal cleansing.

Similar words come from Dr Robert Mendelsohn, a Professor of Paediatrics, who writes in his book 'How To Raise A Healthy Child In Spite Of Your Doctor', "If your child contracts an infection, the fever that accompanies it is a blessing and not a curse……A rising body temperature simply indicates that the process of healing is sped up. It is something to rejoice over, not to fear."

On the other hand, for those parents who are not comfortable with this concept of disease, or who simply don't want their children getting sick at all, then such parents must do the best they can to embrace this philosophy of health in their own lives and that of their children, for in my opinion, this is the only way that parents can ensure true health in their children and subsequent protection from childhood infection and other diseases.

"Those who disregard the Laws of Heaven and Earth have a lifetime of calamities, while those who follow the Laws remain free from dangerous illnesses."
Old Chinese Proverb

source: http://www.vaclib.org/sites/debate/web7.html

Secrets of the Millionaire Mind

Rich people believe: “I create my life.” Poor people believe: “Life happens to me.” (This is HUGE. Every successful person I know is control of her life. Unhappy people are constantly complaining to me how this, that, or the other thing prevents them from doing something.)

Rich people play the money game to win. Poor people play the money game to not lose.

Rich people are committed to being rich. Poor people want to be rich.

Rich people think big. Poor people think small.

Rich people focus on opportunities. Poor people focus on obstacles.

Rich people admire other rich and successful people. Poor people resent rich and successful people. (This is important, too — it seems to hold true among my friends.)

Rich people associate with positive, successful people. Poor people associate with negative or unsuccessful people. (Another important one.)

Rich people are willing to promote themselves and their value. Poor people think negatively about selling and promotion.

Rich people are bigger than their problems. Poor people are smaller than their problems.

Rich people are excellent receivers. Poor people are poor receivers.

Rich people choose to get paid based on results. Poor people choose to get paid based on time.

Rich people think “both”. Poor people think “either/or”.

Rich people focus on their net worth. Poor people focus on their working income.

Rich people manage their money well. Poor people mismanage their money well.

Rich people have their money work hard for them. Poor people work hard for their money.

Rich people act in spite of fear. Poor people let fear stop them. (This is big for me right now. I’ve accomplished most of the goals I set for myself, and need to set some new ones. But I have this nagging fear, because I’m moving into the unknown. Eker says that successful people act in spite of this fear. They move beyond worry, they “fake it til they make it”, learning as they go. Unsuccessful people do nothing at all.)

Rich people constantly learn and grow. Poor people think they already know.


by T. Harv Eker

Don't Ask...

Here are some thoughts to ponder before asking for other people's advice.




If you want to be rich don't ask advice from broke people.

If you want to be a great athlete or martial artist ask advice from people who are successful at their craft.

If you want to be a teacher ask advice from a successful teacher.

If you want to be a great singer ask advice from a great singer.

If you want to be good at computer games ask advice from people who are good at computer games.

If you want reach the top of the mountain don't ask advice from people who haven't been to the top.

If you want to get a house don't ask advice from people who don't have a house.

If you want to have more time don't ask advice from people who are always busy with work and doesn't have the time.

If you want to have passive/residual income don't ask advice from people who earns from active income.

If you want to be a good trader don't ask advice from people who don't trade.

If you want to be a businessman don't ask advice from people who don't have a business.

If you want to learn how to save money don't ask advice from people who do not have a savings account.

If you want to have a girlfriend or boyfriend don't ask advice from single people.

If you want to have a car don't ask people who don't have a car.

If you want to have a lot of money don't ask advice from people who do not have any.

If you want to have a happy family don't ask advice from people who have a great family.

If you want to be happy don't ask advice from people who are depressed, miserable or lonely.

If you want to have great and loving relationships don't ask advice from people who are brokenhearted.

If you want to be a good guitar player ask advice from people who plays great with their guitar instrument.

If you want to be fit, lose weight and healthy ask advice from people who have a healthy lifestyle.

If you want to be more confident and high self-esteem ask advice from people who exudes confidence.

If you want to become more patient and kind ask advice from people who have self-control and not from people who are always irritated, angry or complaints a lot.

If you want to have good communication skills with your friends and family ask advice from people who successfully communicates with their friends and family.

If you want to be a good student ask advice from people who are doing good at school.

If you want to be an excellent cook as advice from great cooks.

If you want to lessen your cursing ask advice from people who speaks kind.

If you want to be a great photographer ask advice from people who are good at photography.

If you want to be spiritual ask advice from people who are spiritual.

If you want to be more peaceful don't ask advice from people who are violent or chaotic.

If you want to be slim don't ask advice from people who are fat.

If you want to be fast don't ask advice from people who are slow.

If you want to be intelligent don't ask advice from  people who are dumb or stupid or who does't read.

If you want to be a good leader don't ask people who don't have followers.

If you want to be beautiful don't ask advice from ugly people.

If you want to be good don't ask advice form evil people.

If you want to sleep early don't ask advice from people who sleeps late.

If you want to have more friends don't ask advice from people who have a lot of enemies.

If you want to change don't ask advice from people are don't like to change.

If you want your dreams to come true don't ask advice from people who don't have dreams.

If you want to be more loving towards another human being and other religion don't ask advice from people who hate other people and other religion.

If you want improve your understanding with God don't ask advice from people who don't believe in God.

If you want to be religious ask advice from people who are religious.

If you want to succeed don't ask advice from failures.

If you want to be positive don't ask advice from negative people.

Assumptions

Gossips no matter how stupid can spread like wildfire.

Funny when people, even if there is no proof of who is guilty assumes or pre-supposes that the other party is the one guilty just based on popularity and public support.

In NLP/ Hypnosis terms we call this pre-suppositions. 

Remember the time, when a friend tells you something bad about a common friend? 

And even if its just a 'chismis' the moment you see that person you act and treat the person /pre-judged it the way he/she was described to you even if it's not proven. 

Ridiculously, even if its not true people buy into the gossip and still see and treat the other person the way the other person was described.

People, even if its just an assumption, treats people as if they are already guilty just based on an emotional nonobjective response.

That is how gossip/chismis, assumption are very dangerous.

It could make or break a relationship or an image of a person.

That is how predictable people are.

Be careful.

Thou shall not judge.

Life as It is

"If you stop seeing things in terms of what you like and what you don't like 

and see things for what they truly are and not what you expect them to be, 

you will feel a great deal of peace in your mind 

and in your heart for the rest of your life."

-SirYuri

Most people see and experience life the way they were programmed or conditioned to respond to it.

If you see life as a Capitalist, Businessman, Politician, Martial artist, Athlete or a Muslim, Christian, Catholic or a Jew you are experiencing life in a prejudiced way.

A Politician will look at people as votes, Business people will see people as business deals. A competitive martial artist or athlete will see people as competition.

There is a barrier, a layer between reality and You because, you no longer see or touch it directly.

Let's take it up a notch.

A person who is happy will see and respond to people in a happy manner.

A peaceful person will respond peacefully to people, situations and things.

However, an aggressive, irritated, emotional negative person will more often than not see people and respond to situations in a manner that he/she is programmed or conditioned to be.

People or children will never be aggressive, irritated, negative or emotional if nobody taught or practiced these things on them.

You see and respond to people and things not as they are but as you are programmed or conditioned to respond. Let go of your programming and your judgement will drop and you will see reality.