Hindrances

Hindrances and hardships in relationships, business, career, health and spirituality are part of ones training to becoming a person of success and they are put there in your way in order to teach you how to deal with them. When you quit and make excuses it does not help you in your growth. The more challenges you overcome the more you become successful.

WHY

According to popular belief that knowing WHAT you want and HOW to get it, is the question to be asked. Not exactly. Most people WANT and knows HOW to make money. But the most significant question one should ask after knowing what you want is WHY? you want it. It is the core of every successful endeavor. It is the ULTIMATE INNER GAME.

The Why is what differentiates ordinary from the extraordinary. It is an all consuming fanaticism that will make you crazily want to be successful in a certain area.

The Why is what makes heroes do impossible things and fear nothing even if the odds is not in their favor. It is the WHY that makes people stand up for what they believe and fight for it with all their might and put their lives on the line.





The Why is what drives you to pursue something even if nobody believes you. Just like when Galileo and the Wright brothers presented their ideas. The Why is what gave humans to do the unimaginable and go fly to the moon.



The WHY is what will propel you to achieve you goal even if you don't have the resources. The why is what makes people get 2 or even 3 jobs just to support their family or make one a bread winner.

The Why is what separates successful people from failures. It is the why that makes athletes strive to become champions. It is the why that builds winners.




The deep reason why you do something is what will attract the how and the what. People who focus on the why make more money than people who focus on the how or what.

A lot of people are more intelligent and talented than the rest of humanity BUT It is the why that makes people to innovate technology and surpass mediocrity and the rest of the competition even though they have the same skills, resources, intelligence, talent and ideas. It is the why that makes one the best of the best.





It is the why that makes you stand up and fight another round even though the chances are so slim.

It is the why that gives you the will to fight and die for what you want even if everything seems to go wrong from what you planned and assumed. It is the why that makes you do whatever it takes just to get what you want no matter what and say to yourself, just one more day and i'll know i'll make it through this.






A lot of people focus on the what and the how and the PLAN. That's why not a lot of people who have plans are that successful. They don't have the WHY to do it. Those things are outer game. But it is the WHY that will get you the DREAM.

The DREAM is all there is. Its The END RESULT. If a person has enough reason WHY to do something, the sky is the limit, Nothing is impossible. It will give you the ability to do anything. That's why when Martin Luther King gave his historical speech he said: I HAVE A DREAM. He did not say I have a plan.





We don't attract what we want. We attract what we are.(WHY) The Why is your purpose. Your belief. Your result.



What is your WHY?

You Can Do It!

THE MAN WHO THINKS HE CAN

IF YOU THINK YOU ARE BEATEN, YOU ARE

IF YOU THINK YOU DARE NOT, YOU DON’T

IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO WIN BUT YOU THINK

YOU CAN’T IT’S ALMOST A CERTAIN YOU WON’T

IF YOU THINK YOU’LL LOSE ,YOU’RE LOST

FOR OUT IN THE WORLD WE FIND,

SUCCESS BEGINS WITH A FELLOW’S WILL,

ITS ALL IN THE STATE OF MIND

IF YOU THINK YOUR OUTCLASSED, YOU ARE

YOU’VE GOT TO THINK HIGH TO RISE

YOU’VE GOT TO BE SURE OF YOURSELF

BEFORE YOU CAN EVER WIN A PRIZE.

LIFE’S BATTLES DON’T ALWAYS GO TO THE

STRONGER OR THE FASTER MAN,

BUT SOONER OR LATER, THE MAN WHO WINS

IS THE MAN WHO THINKS HE CAN.

Omnipotent

"From testimonials and personal experiences we have enough information to conclude
that it is possible to design and live an extraordinary life."-Jim Rohn




When I was in the seminar of John Calub one of the things that got stuck in my mind is when he said: "You and I have infinite potential." I was talking to him again this morning and he again brought up the topic of about being infinite. We were discussing some stuffs and abilities that we are now able to do in our practice Pemusatan Kalimasada. Things like walking on fire, breaking a tile with a light bulb or fluorescent with energy and it wont break, projecting energy to push people and the most important ability we were able to develop is healing other people even from a distance or what they call remote healing. His father also benefited from his healing my family too and friends who needs some assistance we were able to heal.

A few years ago when we started we were all beginners. Unable to do these things but since we know that "You and I have infinite potential." we understood that someday, somehow we don't know when, we will be able to do those things. And it came true. It is possible to heal yourself and other people.

Age does not matter, we have members who are 70 years old and we have member who are 16years old and still they are able to develop their abilities. There were also some people who have terminal cancer and there was a rare case that she was unable to walk because she got into a train accident(her car got hit) but still she recovered and now perfectly alive and well. Some were faster than others but they all succeeded and got to the next level and the next. Which goes to prove as long as you are willing to learn and give it enough time you will get there. We've seen it and have proven it from our experiences. That it is possible, you and I have infinite potential.

Now, how do we relate this into relationships, health and especially in making money? Same thing actually.

In making money, it is also possible to make a lot of money. Why do you want to make money? because, you want to have a comfortable life and not having enough money creates discomfort not only to you but to your family and friends as well. If you want to make money and is willing to learn and give it time ,then good, if not then its okay too, that's your choice. From my experience if you have money you are able to do more good things. As Jose Silva of Silva Method would say: Money is the fuel that that will move the engine(human) to do more things. In other words its hard to move or do things nowadays w/o it.

Ray Kroc started Mc Donalds when he was already 52 years old. Colonel Sanders started Kentucky Fried Chicken when he was around that same age too with his retirement pay. Both of them made tons of money and their old age did not limit them from achieving their dream.

Mark Zuckerberg started Facebook when he was in college and now he is the youngest billionaire of our time. Steve Jobs the founder of Mac started his empire in a garage now it is worth billions. Same goes for Bill Gates who is a college drop out but still achieved phenomenal success.

The owner of Honda started his business while japan is at war, he got no office, because the Americans kept bombing japan and just started literally in the streets building bikes(he started with bikes before cars). But it never stopped him. Now, It is one of the biggest car manufactures in the world.

Manny Pacquaio started with nothing in boxing he is among the poorest of the poor. But now he is worth billions of pesos. He got no money no education but he is now recognized all over the world.

What is the common theme from these success stories? It goes to prove that age is not a factor. Money is not a factor. Education is not a factor for you to make a lot of money.

Just look around you you will see stories of people that made it against all odds. I remember Lance Armstrong said that: Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it lasts forever.

From all these stories we can conclude that: "You and I have infinite potential." use it wisely and don't let what GOD gave you go to waste.



"For things to change, you have to change. For things to get better, you have to get better."

"Work harder on yourself than you do on your job. If you work hard on your job, you can make a living. If you work hard on yourself, you can make a fortune."

"Don't spend major time on minor things."

Sponge Bob

You attract where you put your attention to.

Everything you don't like, hate, criticize, have a suspicion, gossip about, read about, watch, irritated at, you disagree and all those stuffs... you absorb it into your world... just like a sponge.

That's why its easy to do what is wrong, because everybody is doing it.

Be different. 

See no evil. Hear no evil. Say no evil. 

Focus on what is good.

Love not War

I was out awhile ago and I saw a couple fighting inside the mall and I overheard people saying. "That's normal in a relationship." Now, looking at my relationships I realized, that I never had any memory of any fight I had.

Most people believe that fighting in a relationships is necessary for a couple. The media, church and society agrees. I don't, I think that is just stupid. Fighting is never right. Love is.

I always believed that you are the captain of your thoughts. If you believe that "fighting is normal" in relationships then you will have that in your affairs. Love is all there is.

You attract who you are.

Attraction is an Inside Job

I was talking to one of my spiritual teacher this morning about the theory of attraction. And I asked him what can he say about attracting someone. He said that:

"In attracting your ideal partner its easy actually. All you have to do is work on yourself. Through visualization and affirmation and becoming the best of you, you make yourself an attractive person and thus attracting the ideal person for you."

I said to him: "That easy? You mean I don't have to do anything physically?"

Teacher:"Yes."

Yuri: "Seems like that's kinda hard to grasp. Like for example, I saw a girl right now walking in the street can't I approach her and talk to her and use my techniques to seduce her to like me?"

Teacher: "Ahhh... yes, you could but you see, that is where the problem lies. People are fond of forcing things to happen and that gives them problems."

Yuri:" What do you mean problems?"

Teacher: "You see when you force things to happen and use your skills in seducing them you'll both end up unhappy. Because, when you see a girl most of the time you get attracted to that girl because, you have a programmed idea of beauty inside your mind that was programmed by the media and the environment in your mind, which makes you unconsciously attracted to this person and because of that you'll force yourself for that girl to like you."

Yuri: "Can you please explain a little more?"

Teacher: "When you work on yourself you will attract the ideal girl for you, which means the perfect girl for your vibration. That is why most people end up with a partner that is different from what the environment has programmed into their minds (i.e. Foreigners are attracted to exotic. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Hot girls with Ugly BFs. Hot Boys with ugly Gfs) You don't attract what you want, You attract who you are. When you work on yourself to becoming an attractive person you 'almost' don't have to do anything. Events, situations and circumstances will align perfectly for you two people to meet. And when you two meet you don't have to force anything. You will talk as if you guys have known each other for years. You will just take off naturally."

Yuri: "Wow, this is actually mind blowing. Let me digest it for a minute. So, you mean I don't have to manipulate the situations so that the girl will like me?"

Teacher: "Yes."

Yuri: "Is it also the reason why sometimes when I meet a certain girl the attraction is instantly there? and I don't have to literally do anything as if the stars are aligned at that precise moment for us to be together. Seems like we get along in everything, no nagging fighting and all those negative stuffs. And sometimes I meet a girl and I so love to manipulate everything for her to get attracted to me and seems like nothing is happening and when I do get the girl problems arise. The girl nags , fights, cheats, break-ups etc.. "

Teacher: "Yes."

Yuri:" Wow, this is mind-blowing. Is it also the reason why sometimes there could be a hundred good looking men inside a room and there is one girl and that girl will get attracted to the ideal guy whose vibration is resonating with her."

Teacher:"Yes. Like attracts like. Remember you only have to work on you. Don't force things to happen. Work on yourself and you will attract the ideal girl for you."

Yuri:"So this information, like blew off every teaching out there about love and relationships. All we really need to do is work on ourselves and let the energy or the universe do the work for us."

Teacher:"Yes."

Yuri:"Okay that's really cool. One last question. Why is it sometimes you meet the ideal girl and after a few months or years, you guys don't get along anymore?"

Teacher: "It's because, you guys have outgrown each other. Unless you are growing together and do everything together, so the change is almost the same. Means that, you guys have a different vibration now. Remember, energy is ever changing either the vibration of the energy is going up to a more spiritual development or the energy will stagnate or lowers its vibration to a more undesirable one. And when both of you are not resonating with the same vibration just like an out of tune piano then conflicts will happen. Most people will again force everything in their power for them to be together they want to fight it, but It's time to part ways. You will attract the ideal girl for you and she will attract the ideal man for her. "

Yuri: "There are a lot of light bulbs exploding in my mind right now sir. Thank you for sharing. This just explains the saying you don't attract what you want, you attract who you are inside."

Teacher: "Yes."

"Nature does not strain itself to grow. 
Grass, trees and plants all of them grow easily and naturally, effortless. 
That is how nature is. That is how love is. 

When you control and force things to happen that is fear not love."

Good Karma

When you do more good things and help a lot of people you get to make what we call 'karmic deposits' to the universe, so when the time comes you need it, you'll be able to withdraw something from the universe.

It will protect/spare you, your family and immediate loved ones in your aura from unforeseen accidents, natural disasters, and cataclysmic change. When you have a lot of 'karmic deposits' you will be able to 'withdraw something' and use it in trying times.

But if you don't help others and you just focus on yourself your, work, goals and your problems all the time, how can you make karmic deposits? and withdraw something when the time comes?

The only way to gauge how successful you are is not how much money you have in the bank. But how many people have you been of service to?

What you want to do is to accumulate more good karma by doing more good than bad and by doing that you are able to create more karmic deposits.

Help other people, give, volunteer. Service to others leads to greatness.





"A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed."-Proverbs 11:25

You Complete Me... and so I think.

One of my explorations in the study if Ego lead me into this very empowering realization. We are complete. That we don't need somebody to complete us because we are already complete. What you are looking for is somebody to share the experience with.

Jerry Maguire is lying and made people believe in an idea that robs them of their true self-esteem and it has brought a lot of unnecessary pain to people who subscribed into that dis-empowering belief.

If you are stuck on the idea of love and cannot comprehend what is going on with it, your difficulty is that you are looking for love outside yourself. You are looking for somebody else to put meaning in your life and validate you.

If you do not have that person, you become angry or feel you are worthless. This is a pattern you grew up with, which your parents and your society showed you and which is a very dis-empowering kind of social conditioning.

The most important thing you can do is love yourself and honor God. But you keep forgetting this and looking for the next relationship to make you whole or complete.

You feel that without a relationship you are perhaps less than an acceptable citizen. Then you feel lonely. You must learn how to be alone.

Loneliness is simply a state of mind. You are never, never alone. If you would stop feeling sorry for yourselves, you would find that there is so much to life. So go out and explore humanity.

You and I, we are already complete. Always have been.

We are not Equal

Look at this picture, this is a perfect example how society has programmed us to generalized things and persons. And because of this dis-empowering social conditioning some people specially teachers seem to treat every person the same.

God created us in his image and likeness but man created inequality. We are not all equal from a open-minded perspective and life is unfair for people who won't teach themselves necessary knowledge to improve their lives.

Not every guy is the same. Not every girl is the same. Not every country is the same it has been scientifically proven that we all have unique finger prints and DNA.

We can't generalize students/people and we cant treat them all the same. We all have different backgrounds, levels of understanding, different experiences in life and relationships.

That's why all you can do is listen to people because giving them advice is sometimes futile, since sometimes or most of the time, you don't really experienced what they have experienced.. and you base your advice from what you have experienced.

Sometimes I just smile whenever I hear priest or pastors who gives advice to people about marriage, relationship or sex when they themselves have not been married. I know, the blind leading the blind.

And also some so called 'experts' on relationships seem to give their advice base only from their experience and they think what they have experienced is the only antidote for every broken heart out there. Unless maybe, this expert have the same DNA as you or the same girlfriend, then you could say you have experienced what he has experienced, and then give your advice, but it never is.

The world is so diverse for us to generalized or standardized things especially when dealing with people and their feelings.

That is also one of the reasons why some families or organizations fail because, they tend to compare the accomplishment of their children or workers to that of another. When the fact is you have to realize that everybody is unique.

All we can do is positively guide and encourage people along the way to have a positive outlook in life and listen in their development and let them learn from their experience.

Nobody really knows what is right for a person even the church or the media does not know, Only God knows. Let's get a hold of ourselves and let people experience life on their own.

Stop gathering information form the outside and start gathering from within. Experience is the best teacher.

The Gruenfeld Effect

"Because one believes in oneself, one doesn't try to convince others. Because one is content with oneself, one doesn't need others' approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her."

- Lao Tzu

My Chat with the Master Christopher Brian E. Fello

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July 13SirYuri

Bro, anu ba talaga meaning ng self-actualization and Authenticity.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

hehe dapat alam mo yan diba. self-actualization for me is realization of your potential after having met all your needs. like nimbus overdrive. and then reaching out for others to do the same. authenticity is operating without ego. you don't filter your actions based on what other people might think. you are true to the core. you do the action because that is what is true to you. un lng hehe 101 ba to

July 13SirYuri

reaching out? d ba ego din yun? i mean you are assuming that people need what you know?

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

no, reaching out in a sense giving back and sharing what you learned. "labeling" something as ego is ego itself lol.. ako, i don't get too caught up much in the ego analysis, I know what authenticity is and I just focus on that. like not playing not to lose but playing to win is the strategy bro. it's very tricky kase. it's like you need to go through some stuff to increase your level of consciousness and transcend it. like going meta. seeing the forest instead being immersed in the trees AND THEN seeing yourself looking at the forest. any kind of change that is worthy is to be met by resistance. you know that very well. that's the challenge with every movement. but in the end, what works, works. parang interview to ah, dyd mastermind series dvd version

July 13SirYuri

weh...

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

hehe

July 13SirYuri

so are you telling me that you just have to live your life and lead by example?

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

that's the path that im on now, maybe I can contribute more after I have gained more leverage. ikaw you are in a position of a lot of leverage. and we can do that via the project. I think it's gonna evolve into something awesome. who knows

July 13SirYuri

everything makes perfect sense now. So basically you have to lead by example and if people don't like what you do or don't support you or if they don't like you... that's okay... you just do what you love anyway. And let your territorial reality expand and let those people who want to follow you join you and those who don't its alright.

You know what i think you are the best person who should talk about and post stuffs life this i mean Authenticity and EGO. You have more experience in these realm of consciousness than most of us.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

naks naman, tumataba ang puso ko. hahaha baka lumaki ego ko nyan ingat tayo haha. anyways, baka ginagamitan mo ko ng science of influence ha diba pinahiram ko sau un ung advanced. meron ako transcript nun kaya ok lng u can keep the cds, ok sana if you can make a digital copy and distribute sa pp members via download page.blueprint is masyadong advanced para sa average person. ok pa rin, if they start there. unti unti yan maiintindihan kasi you need reference experiences to relate it to.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

here's another thing, any time you are operating from authenticity you are contributing to the positive social energy. everytime you are operating from ego, you are taking from that energy. it's so subtle and sometimes challenging to distinguish, once good point to remember is remove your agendas, just give give give. if most people will do that, if they realize that they are already in abundance they just have to realize it, they will contribute more to the crystallization of abundance for all of us. in all aspects. agendas are fueled by ego, ir operating from scarcity.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

*correction once to one

July 13SirYuri

okay, what about debate? I mean, cge okay na ego mo. Then suddenly somebody challenged your idea? would you defend it?

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

i see. ayos maisshare mo to. regarding someone challenging your idea, that is the resistaning ego in them working to fight, their worldview is being challenged and they feel they need to fight back and protect it, hayaan mo lng, kasi minsan our statements are like computer code that can program the mind. pag masyado forceful and statement, some people feel the need to defend their worldview. hayaan mo nlng. for me debate is useless if fueled by emotion. it gets skewed. be like water. like bamboo, you yield but not surrender. they will eventually realize it as they grow aware of what they are doing. which is "protecting" their world view". which means, how their mind operates, how they deal with the world, and that's a big deal for a person. di ba nga sabi sa blueprint, masisira ang worldview mo. and you rebuild it.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

the way to deal with a debating person is to truly try to understand their worldview, then after understanding it, you lay it out in front of them in relation to what you are saying.

cgurado namang mas advanced ka na in terms of experience and knowledge so you already know where the debating person is coming from.

July 13SirYuri

In the matrix this is what happened to Neo when Morpheus tries to show him what is the matrix is is called Cognitive Dissonance- Cognitive dissonance is an uncomfortable feeling caused by holding conflicting ideas simultaneously.

Which means that your idea of life is different from the view of another so the automatic response is to fight back because that is the INITIAL reaction of humans to fight what is against their beliefs.

Now, how do you know if your idea is TRUE from my idea? Because, I could go all day long to prove my idea to you and you can also go all day and support it with facts and social proof. Then nobody wins right?

July 13SirYuri

By the way what if you know the person has a very dangerous idea Like if it has an idea of blowing up the planet? don't you think its just right to tell him that what he is doing is wrong?

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

what is true for you is true for you. that's the nature of the matrix.

July 13SirYuri

hahaha o nga naman.. it just means to live your life the way you want it and lead by example. So you can't judge and you can't insist your ideas to those people who doesn't share you're reality or how you view your life.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

we had people like that before, hitler etc. and you cannot really control them, just let the natural course of events deal with it. the universe is an excellent computer it seems. everything that happens is for the good of everything/everyone diba.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

yup. they will attack and they will try to bring you down because of envy or whatever ego bs might be prodding them to do that, but that's part of the fun. part of the challenge. if it was too easy where is the fun in that, kaya nga pag nagchechess ako nilalagay ko sa grandmaster level coz I want to improve. btw, i play chess for a reason bro.

July 13SirYuri

Eh what if nga its dangerous na life the corruption here in our country. Can't we be a little self-righteous? to let them know that what they are doing is destructive? I mean man, if we won't act then who will? If we won't do something about our country who will?

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

they are so deep into ego and scarcity. it's ironic na kung sino pa ung mga politiko na mayayaman dito sa atin eh sila pa ung operating from scarcity and greed. lol if we cannot deal with them directly, we have a strategy in chess like an indirect attack, or in hacker terms, going thru a backdoor or making a backdoor. you can try that and make a direct attack on a person but that will create more problems. we can subtly and slowly eat away at that stuff and win in the end just like what you read in I.Confessions. un ang strategy na pinili nila. alala mo pa un.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

what are you planning ba regarding the corruption dito sa pinas? let's lead the youth. wala silang panalo sa sinabi ni rizal.

once the core of Pp is strong enough, we bring in lahat ng matatalinong youth dito sa pinas. through the power of the internet, iba na ang magagawa ng ideas ngayon.

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True Story of the Power of Prayer

When the atomic bomb was dropped on Hiroshima in 1945. Eight men who were living in a house eight blocks from the blast were miraculously untouched. One of them was a priest who explained that in that house, the rosary was prayed everyday.



Read more below:

Rosary Miracle at Hiroshima – August 6th, 1945




The 8 Jesuit survivors were examined by Scientists over 200 times over the next 30 years with no ill effects found, which puzzled scientists. It happened again in the Nagasaki bomb where a Franciscan friary built by St. Maximilian Kolbe also went unaffected. This does not mean that Christians are nuke-proof, Christianity is built on the blood of the Martyrs, but the fact that these Christians & others came unharmed from 2 atomic bombs, is deffinatly a Sign from God. A Miracle.

Strength and Vegetarianism

If you'll start to do a little research in history, it will become evident to you that Spartans, Greek athletes and Gladiators, who are the strongest men of their time were all vegetarians.

All the useful animals of great strength that are helpful in doing work with humans such as Camels, Horses and Elephants are all herbivores. Tigers, Lions although are strong are pretty useless because of their savage nature.

"And God said, Behold, I have given you every herb yielding seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in which is the fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for food."-Genesis 1:29

Temptation

We all agree that the power of association is such a powerful element in influencing and molding the mind that of a child or that of a grown up person.

There is a saying that if you want to be rich, be with rich people and share their beliefs. If you want to have a healthy body be with people who are healthy. If you want to be happy be with happy people.

It is just quite obvious that the thoughts of other people have an effect in each of us just. If you have ever experience being with a person that is depressed and negative all the time, sometimes this person does not have to speak because, you FEEL the sadness leaking out his entire being.

Some people lack the discipline in managing where they put their attention to. Their thoughts could be compared to that of a leaf floating around with the breeze with no conscious control over their thoughts and feelings, just waiting for the next surge of emotions to take them somewhere.

They read magazines about infidelity and cheating, watch movies or shows of violence, hate, sex, engage in conversations of negative gossip, watch the news and get irritated of this certain politician or celebrity, go to events or chat with friends over alcohol about the problem of one of their friends doing drugs and wonder at the end of the day then say to themselves..." Oh God, why am I feeling all these negative things in my life?"

Some people does not want to discipline their mind and let it be overwhelmed with Godlike thoughts, they would rather give in to outer world desires, irritation and urges than still themselves and let the power of God take over their mind body and world.

And funny how some people blame things outside themselves (i.e. the devil) for all these Temptations and misfortunes that they have been experiencing.

If a person will trace all the things that has been happening in her life you will soon clearly find, that that it began with their thoughts. Those magazines you've read. The movie you've watched. The conversation you had with your friend. The Facebook status you just saw.

All the things you put your attention to, you absorb it into your world, consciously or unconsciously.

Where you put your attention is there you are and that you become.

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"The universe is change; our life is what our thoughts make it."

- Marcus Aurelius

As a man thinks in his heart so is he. This verse alone from the bible proves what power we have in our thoughts.

Your thoughts are very powerful. It could affect 'literally' the people and the environment around you. How unfortunate it is that people take for granted the power of their thoughts.

We must not excuse ourselves as so many do, by saying undesirable feelings are natural under certain conditions, we must assert our power to take control of our minds and emotions and not let our emotions control us.

A grumbling and fault-finding attitude towards others is unfortunately sadly common at the present day. And those who make it a habit never seem to realize the harm that they are doing.

If we study its result we shall see that the habit of malicious gossip is nothing short of wicked. It does not matter if the gossip is true or not in either case it can cause only harm.

"Men are not prisoners of fate, but only prisoners of their own minds."

- Franklin D. Roosevelt

Suppose a number of people 'suspects' another person of jealousy. And these group of people starts to spread gossips and pour their thoughts and energy and tell other groups of people(they even post it on Facebook or Twitter

Isn't it obvious that if the poor man these people are accusing has any tendency towards that unpleasant quality, it cannot but greatly intensified in him because, of the thoughts they have been sending and gossiping about the individual?

And if, as is commonly the case, that the person these people are gossiping about, does not have that characteristic of jealousy, because of their gossiping and thoughts they would create jealousy in the affairs of the person being accused.

No wonder most famous people becomes unstable look at Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan, Mo twister, Macapagal Arroyo and the combined negative thought of the whole nation focused towards them. Makes sense?

"For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that

which I was afraid of is come unto me."-Job 3:25

Think of your friends, love ones and any person by all means, but think of their good points, not because that it is much healthier for you but because by doing so you strengthen them.

When you are reluctantly compelled to recognize the presence of some undesirable quality in a person, take special care not to think of it, BUT to think instead of the opposite virtue which you wish him to develop.

If he happens to have a bad attitude and easily gets angry, carefully avoid gossiping about his defect or even fixing your thought upon it, because if you do, the vibration which you will send to him will simply make matters worse. Instead of that, think with all your strength of the quality which he needs, flood him with the patience and peace, for in that way you will really help your brother. Also if you have a love one that has a disease and sickly, instead of feeling depressed about it, think of thoughts that strengthens and heals them. Imagine the possibility.

"Your beliefs controls your genes." -Dr. Bruce Lipton Ph.D.

Just imagine the effect of this, if you start to think positive thoughts towards your father, mother, husband, wife, son, daughter, brother, sister, relatives, cousin, girlfriend, boyfriend, maid, driver, neighbor, work colleagues, friends, stranger, teacher, waiter, waitress, security guards, the man on the street, the beggar, the street children, celebrities, politicians, the president, our justices, our government, our country, other nations and the world? Ask yourselves, are you part of the solution or the problem?

"Thought creates character."- Annie Besant

You may start to make it a habit to think good and kindly thoughts, and your minds will begin to work more easily along the lines of admiration and appreciation instead of along those of suspicion and negativity. If you do make it a habit of practicing good and kindly thoughts you shall very soon begin to perceive the results of this positive habit in your life.

Use your thoughts in ways such us these and you will become a bonfire of blessing in your corner of the world.

"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things." -Philippians 4:8

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“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” 

― Eleanor Roosevelt

Picture these examples.

-Your friend said a joke and you laughed.
-He gave you a gift and you loved it.
-She cheated on you and you cursed her.
-He yelled at you and you cried so bad.
-You saw your crush the other day and you feel like you're in heaven.
-That special someone forgot to greet you on your birthday and you feel that you are not important.
-Your hubby did not reply to your text and now you're angry and jealous.
-Your child or the news or traffic irritated you.
-Your friends made you a surprised party and now you can't stop smiling.
-Your boss said something that made you feel worthless.
-You felt offended because a person have a different perspective or idea regards a certain topic in business, religion, food or relationships.
-Your long lost friend suddenly showed up and now you get excited to reconnect.
-Somebody broke your heart and you can't seem to move on.


If you feel excited, loved, hurt, offended, depressed, jealous, angry, relaxed, irritated, happy or whatever it is you felt towards a person, spouse, family, partner, office mate, situation, media, government or friend.

You have to realize that you have nothing to blame for the good and bad feelings but the person in the mirror which is you. Truth of the matter is that you alone control your thoughts and how you react to other people.

Some people will say that its 'normal' to feel bad sometimes or to express negative emotion. That is why they keep attracting it duh?! Not because everybody is doing it, it is right.

Keep in mind that your thoughts create your world. What you believe and think you attract in your life. Man becomes what he thinks about.

Ninety percent of the time Life happens to each of us and the ten percent is
how we react to it.

So the next time you get offended or hurt, remember it is all your fault.

Good thoughts make you feel good and bad thoughts make you feel bad. So choose good thoughts that heal and benefits you. And discard bad thoughts that destroys and limits you.

Don't expect. Let your ego and bad social conditioning out the window. Keep loving. Keep giving value. Never get tired of doing good.

Emotion is a poor master. Take conscious control of it or it will control you.