Think For Yourself

Just when you think you know something, you have to look at it in another way....

"Boys, you must strive to find your own voice. Because the longer 
you wait to begin, the less likely you are to find it at
all. Thoreau said, "Most men lead lives of quiet desperation. 
Don't be resigned to that. Break out!"
-John Keating

Don't let other people tell you what to do.

Are you familiar with this saying "What would other people say?"

Most people live their lives to be somebody they are not. They live to please other people's expectations. Expectations of their parents, families, teacher, communities, government, church, society, school, boss, leader, colleagues.

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”-Steve Jobs

People make promises to other people and to themselves. They go to school with a degree their parents told them to take. They get married because of the opinions of the society. They go into relationships just not to feel left out. They buy fancy cars and become rich to please other people they don't like. They buy cellphones and computers because that is what other people are telling them to buy not because they want it. They want to be billionaires because the media tells them to be one, thinking that the material things in life will make them happy.

"If you don't get what you want, you suffer; if you get what you don't want, you suffer; even when you get exactly what you want, you still suffer because you can't hold on to it forever. Your mind is your predicament. It wants to be free of change. Free of pain, free of the obligations of life and death. But change is law and no amount of pretending will alter that reality."-Peaceful Warrior

And this creates a pressure in their lives where they are pushed to their limits most of the time and they wonder why they are unhappy.

Then they rationalize that as long as they live up to other people's expectations it will be alright and they will be happy. But they never become happy.

"Watching Television is what you call entertainment. It is not a good avenue of learning about your career, financial market, spirituality or relationship."

It's easy to detect if you were programmed by the media and pressured by other people. First, look at all your stuffs if you have something right now that you don't use or need and just laying there in your room, chances are you were brainwashed by advertising to buy that stuff if you have more than enough cellphone, shoes, bags, car or house you were brainwashed too.

Second, if you are in a career or business or relationship and you feel a pressure to save face then you are living up to other people's standards.

"The Greatest things in life are not things."-Prince

As you go back and remember when you were young. When somebody ask you what you want to become, most of you probably have said. "I want to become a pilot!" or " a teacher!" or "a doctor!" or "musician!" or maybe even "a princess!" and you said this with all smiles and full of energy.

Then while growing up you started to think What other people would say. And that started the down turn.

Most peoples dreams are not to get a house, cars, money, or whatever the speaker tells you. You alone know what you want. Stop and think for a moment what do you really want. Don't let the media and other people program you and tell you what you want.

"People fail, because that is not their dream."-Russell

In my case, I don't work for money, I work for values, and ideals.. The sad truth is most people chase on dreams that don't matter because, we were programmed to be that way. We all know that our true purpose in this world is not to accumulate money and material things, this life we have is a spiritual one. And a expression of God's divinity the funny thing is that most people still subscribed to that "idea" that money and material things is all there is to life?

Most business people abuse the word service but actually they just use the word "service" to control people to do what they want. Their idea of service is about control and that is slavery.

"My Momma said there's only so much fortune a man really needs and the rest is

just for showing off."-Forrest Gump

When I started to make money I always ask myself if I really need a big house and lots of cars or even the latest gadgets to make me happy. Because, that is what I see in the television, that is what my neighbor is doing, that is what the speaker who makes a 7 digit income tell me to do. Then I started to think for myself and blocked all these outside influences. There I found the answers deep within me.

I begin to realized that what I really want is to have enough money, read a book everyday, have a nice car, be with the people I love, and live my life the way God intended it to be, a good life, Which is a life of Virtue and High Ideals.

"To do all the things you want to do, and be all the things you want to be. It does include some tools and gadgets, so be it, but they are either means to an end or bonuses, not the focus.To have more quality and less clutter. To have huge financial reserves and recognize that most material wants are justifications for spending time on the things that don't really matter, including buying things and preparing to buy things. Just spent two weeks negotiating your new Infiniti with the dealership and got $10,000 off? That's great. Does your life have a purpose? Are you contributing anything useful to this world, or just shuffling papers, banging on a keyboard, and coming home to a drunken existence on the weekends?"-Timothy Ferris, 4 hour workweek

I rather spend most of my time building things that would last forever like relationships, businesses I am passionate about, health, a spiritual life of Virtue.

Don't conform. Know who you are. Stand up and be a man. Find out for yourself what you truly want to do with your life. You have the right to express yourself and occupy your space on earth. Go get that dream, approach that girl, travel to that place, fall in love, voice out what you think.

"Success is not having a lot of money. Success is the development of a person's character to it's fullest potential in all areas."

Because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.

This life you have is a spiritual journey not a material existence. Are you living your life or living someone else's? You were born an original don't die a copy.

What is your dream?

"It is a useless life not consecrated to a great ideal,

it is like stone wasted in the field and not being part of an edifice."

-Jose Rizal

The Future is Bright

"Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, depression, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence."-Eckhart Tolle

A brick layer focuses his undivided attention into carefully placing every brick. He lays that brick so perfectly that eventually, he builds a wall for the future.

People are always in a habit of trying to know all the reasons why things happen instead of just living their life to the fullest (which is a life well lived in thought, word and action-Virtue). And letting the chips fall where they may.

Being successful in any area requires you to focus on the process and not of the results. That is quite hard to grasp for some people because the whole of humanity was programmed to always focus on the results.

"Your moment of power is not in the past or future but right NOW."

Most people attend pep rallies to get a hot motivational bath from a seminar to get all hyped up and wake up the next day, back to reality. And some people even fantasize and day dream too much of the possible future in their career and relationships, and most of the time, because they expect too much of the future and the lack of control of the emotions, gets depressed of their current situation. Motivation is a good way to push you forward into a bright future but emotion is a poor master education is not.

"If someone is going down the wrong road, he doesn't need motivation to speed him up. What he needs is education to turn him around."-Jim Rohn

The proper approach is to have a goal in mind, and simultaneously detaching yourself emotionally from the outcome and begin to focus on the work or process that needs to be done right now, to achieve your goal. Realize, that you can't control the results but you can control the action.

Apply this to your life as well as to your career. Freeing yourself from the need to understand "why" things happen in your life is as useful when dealing with relationships, family, friends, love ones and foes as it is when going about your work. It also has the added benefit of making you a much better and relaxed person.

"The Pareto principle also known as the 80–20 rule states that, for anything that is happening in your life right now in any area, roughly 20% of your results come from 80% of the action. In other words what you do right now 80% will determine your 20% future."

Focusing on the process or work to be done is an exercise in observing and responding to the ever present moment of Now. People who predict and dwell on the future dwell upon a nonexistent place and to the extent they also park their ability to act out there, they can miss opportunities to act in the now.

"A journey of the thousand miles begins with a single step."-Confucius

Just like a mountain climber, he has a goal in mind and that is to reach the peak of the mountain(Results). And also carefully focuses at each handhold and the next handhold(Process/Work) because, he knows that the only way for his goals to materialize is to begin to focus his attention right now. Means that, to take each and every handhold to get to the top of his dream.

"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is God's gift, that's why we call it the present."

-Kung Fu Panda

All we have is now. It is much better to react in the present time than a future time that doesn't exist.

The future is NOW.

"You can't control the results but you can control the action."

Lead and Live by Example

"Bruce, deep down you may still be that great kid you used to be, but it's not who you are underneath, it's what you *do* that defines you."-Rachel Dawes, BATMAN BEGINS

Below is a Story shared to me by my friend Renzi. It is especially good for people who are teachers and who are in a leadership position.

Lets us be aware that if you are a teacher that you must live up to what you are teaching. If you are teaching about business see to it you have a business. If you are teaching about spirituality, relationship, exercise, diet or what ever it is, you have to embody it in every area of your life.

I've always believed in the power of Virtue and how it should be incorporated in every area of an individual.

There are a lot of speakers who are good at talking but fail to practice what they preach. There are some people, priest even that talks about love or relationship and even give advice about sex and marriage but themselves have not been married. Some talk about Godly things like being patient and humble but then they scold and reprimand people in public or wants to prove they are right and the other person is wrong. Even some people talk about unity and religion but their actions and language does not reflects it.

Watch what people do and how they live their life not what they say. Success is being consistent in your ideals in every area. That is absolute Authenticity.

Let's all read and learn.

Story of Virtue. A Spiritual Life of Living by Example.

"Stop arguing what a good man should be, be one."

"Lead by example not by resistance."

-Marcus Aurelius

‎"Why worry? Better to live until you die. I am a warrior; my way is action," he said. "I am a teacher; I teach by example. Someday you too may teach others as I have shown you then you'll understand that words are not enough; you too must teach by example, and only what you've realized through your own experience."

Then he told me a story:

A mother brought her young son to Mahatma Gandhi. She begged, "Please, Mahatma. Tell my son to stop eating sugar.'"

Gandhi paused, then said, "Bring your son back in two weeks."

Puzzled, the woman thanked him and said that she would do as he had asked.

Two weeks later, she returned with her son. Gandhi looked the :youngster in the eye and said, "Stop eating sugar."

Grateful but bewildered, the woman asked, "Why did you tell me to bring him back in two weeks? You could have told him the same thing then."

Gandhi replied, "Two weeks ago, 1 was eating sugar."

"Dan, embody what you teach, and teach only what you have embodied."

-excerpt from the book, Way of the Peaceful Warrior

The Observer

A retired policeman once told the legendary hypnotist, Milton Erickson...

"I have emphysema, high blood pressure, and, as you can see, I am grossly overweight. I drink too much. I eat too much. I want a job but my emphysema and blood pressure prevent that. I would like to cut down on my smoking. I'd like to get rid of it. I'd like to quit drinking about a fifth of whiskey a day and I'd like to eat sensibly."

Erickson ask him, "Are you married?" The policeman replied, "No, I'm a bachelor. I do my own cooking, but there's a restaurant right around the corner where I often visit". Erickson said, "So, there's a handy restaurant around the corner where you can dine. Where do you buy your cigarettes?"

He said he bought two cartons at a time.

Erickson pointed out, "In other words, you buy cigarettes not for today, but for the future. Now since you do most of
your own cooking, where do you shop?"

The policeman said, "Fortunately, there's a little grocery store right around the corner. That's where I get my
groceries and cigarettes."

"Where do you get your liquor?"

The policeman replied there was one right next door to the grocery.

Erickson summarized the situation.

"So you have a handy restaurant, grocery and liquor store near your house. You say you want to jog, but you can't. However, you CAN walk".

"All right, buy your cigarettes one pack at a time. Walk across town to buy your pack. That will get you in shape. As for groceries, don't go to the one by your place. Find another one at least a mile away. And buy JUST enough for one meal. That's three nice walks a day.

"As for the liquor, you can drink all you want to. Take your first drink at a bar at least a mile away. If you want a second drink, find another bar at least a mile away. If you want a third, find another bar a mile away."

The policeman looked at Milton Erickson angrily. He cursed at him and left.

A month later, a new patient came by to see Erickson and told him this...

"A policeman referred me to you and said you were the only psychologist in town who knew what he was doing."

This story is worth reading a few times.

There are many levels to it.

I'll show you a couple, and then I'd like you to tell me other levels and interpretations you've found.

Here's one...

Erickson did not DEPRIVE his subject of his wants. He didn't say you can't do this, or you must stop that.

That's what well-meaning friends and family do.

Notice it never works.

Instead, Erickson tells the policeman what he CAN do. He can drink all he want, smokes all he wants, eats all he wants. But he must walk. Now, here's a second and much deeper level to this story. You might be thinking. Well, if I heard that I'd disobey and just keep on smoking, drinking and over-eating.

Right?

Who in the right mind would religiously follow these absurd instructions?

Here's where Erickson is brilliant.

What is a policeman trained to do from the moment he joins the academy? He is trained to listen and obey!

Erickson knew this.

He has a long history of carrying out orders.

So Erickson gave this policeman instructions, expecting him to follow it.

And this lesson is extremely important.

What Erickson did was meet the subject in HIS frame of reference.

When you begin the process of hypnotizing someone...And you're starting to build trust and rapport, it's highly important you pay attention to who your subject is.

Every little detail.

A detail like being a policeman and being susceptible to following orders...That's huge. Pay attention to the NEXT person you come in contact with.

As you find out more about who they are, start brainstorming in your head (very quickly) how you can use what you know about them...

Below is a scene from Sherlock Holmes Watch and learn.

Virtue

People go to church, attend seminars, pray, meditate, chant mantras, and practice different techniques of spirituality or personality development and during those time of quite contemplation they feel very at peace, calm and one with God.



And then after a few hours... reverts back to their old habits like cursing, getting pissed of at the traffic, self-pity, gossiping about another person, criticisms, gives their negative opinion about a Facebook status, do drugs, cheats in business, participate in corruption, wanting to be right, entering into arguments, still doesn't do anything productive with their life, drinks, thinks negatively about somebody and all those stuffs that seem to negate the true essence of spiritual development.

I used to be guilty of this too. I grew up seeing a lot of people especially in my family, the church and school who are like this. And It came to a point in my life that I started to question why. And I said, I am not a tree why not change it, and I did.

I'm not saying they are bad. They were also a victim of herd mentality (everybody is doing it, maybe its right) and until they snap out of this cultural trance it will be hard for them to break free from it.

Doing Spiritual techniques and traditions works and you get the maximum benefit of it when you begin to make it part of your being. In thought, word and action. We are human beings not human doings.

For a person to fully utilize his spiritual progress she should adhere to what the Greeks call 'Apeth' or in Latin 'Virtus' to put it simply, in english VIRTUE.


Virtue is a positive trait or quality that is geared towards moral excellence. This is valued as a foundation of principle and good moral being.


Virtue is higher than skill sets, success techniques, law of attraction, or any business principle out there.


Virtue is a pattern of thought and behavior based on high moral standards. And Integrity in the application of a Virtue ensures its continuity, and this continuity, separates a Virtue from beliefs, opinion and ideas.

"Consistency guarantees success, inconsistency guarantees failure."-Anonymous

It means that through your spiritual practice or tradition you want to be consistent with it in everything you do, in all areas of your life(Family, Health, Relationships, Spirituality, Money). Your spiritual development does not stop in the church, in praying or in meditating. Means that you continue as you go about your everyday routine in thought, word and action.

You continue your spiritual practice and tradition (peace of mind, stillness, oneness with God) in your work, how you deal with friends, family and loved ones, when you drive, when you Facebook or twitter, when you go to the grocery, when you go to a party, when you attend a meeting, when you go to the mall, when you commute, ride the elevator, you go to a date and in everything you do, apply your VIRTUE.

"In everything you do, put God first, and He will direct you and crown your efforts with success." - Proverbs 3:6

Dilemma

"Ask till you understand, without assuming. Humility seeks, the ego assumes."-Dato Vijay Eswaran





In the Deadly Dynamics of Power class (DDP), the first lesson the students learn to be a person of magnetic influence and of persuasive control is to stop judging, criticizing, gossiping and condemning people places, situations conditions or things.

Have you ever experienced, where you are with your friends having a good time and talking about things when suddenly, somebody starts talking about a person and starts telling bad things regarding a certain person? And after a few days you meet this person and you act a ‘little awkward’ towards this person right?

Another is this, have you ever listened to a gossip about a person then when you meet this person it turns out that he/she is not a bad person after all? And you guys become the best of friends. Funny right? But it happens.

The same thing goes for places, condition, situations or things. I mean, how many of you have heard a negative story about a place, situation, event or thing? And when you got there you just can’t help but admire what you see?

How many of us have seen this picture?

One country will spread bad news about one country.

One church will destroy another church.

One company will spread bad things about another company.

One TV station will make negative publicity about another TV station.

One team will bad mouth another team.

One speaker will “make patama” about another person.

One family will criticize another family.

One neighbor will gossip about another neighbor.

One friend will spread gossip about another friend.



How many of us have been in this dilemma?

“Seek first to understand then to be understood.”-Stephen Covey

The whole of mankind is doing this judging, criticizing, gossiping and condemning. That’s why the whole world is always into misunderstandings. Most especially people with low self-esteem and insecure are the ones who do this most of the time.  It’s a vicious cycle.


And not because everybody is doing it, it’s right. That’s why we are here to learn, to improve ourselves. If you have been doing this for the pass days, months or years. Don’t worry I have good news for you. You can change right here, right now.


Never mind if your friends are judging, criticizing, gossiping, condemning and opinionated. Can’t you not act with class? And stop yourself now, from indulging in negative conversations. And begin to talk only about things that will prosper you, that will uplift you, that will inspire you, that will motivate you do more good things.

Realize that the path to personality development is nothing but detail. It is the person who has the consciousness of detail, who leaves no stone un-turned  who will discipline herself, who will realize that it is the small victories 'the little things' inch by inch won in consciousness that make the final victory.

A true student of life only need to focus on the betterment, perfecting and the development of its own self in all areas and not mind what another individual is doing(like will you get any thing beneficial talking about another person's affairs?). 

That means just to mind your own business and focus on improving your own life because, there is always enough room for improvement. If the time and energy alone spent in talking about the affairs of another be spent in dealing and improving with your own personal life, wondrous transformation can take place.

"Lesson #2: Learn To Mind Your Own Business."-Robert Kiyosaki, Rich Dad Poor Dad

Either you speak about positive things or just shut up. You can’t change other people you can only change yourself. So start with yourself.

This has a double edge sword effect to you.

When you speak about negativity and the things you don't like (even mild dislike) you attract more of that in your life. (no wonder some people still have the same problems showing up over and over again) because they keep talking about it. I have experienced it in the past and I’m guilty of it. It’s a long hard road my friends, towards self-improvement that’s why these days I just shut up if I got nothing good to say.

On the contrary, when you speak positivity and the things you do like, you attract more of it in your life. That’s what’s great about it. So if you are talkative, you have an edge. :)

“You get more of what you focus on.” -Paul McKenna

A lot of relationships could have turned out to be a fruitful one, if only people would stop judging, criticizing, gossiping and condemning other people. I mean a lot.

Most relationships are ruined through judging, criticizing, gossiping and condemning true? Yeah, I know. Been there.

And a person of influence and True Power who is not insecure could not have any preconceived idea about people, places, and conditions. It ruins the entire experience of being in the moment, which is not worrying about the future or the past but living in the present moment wisely and earnestly.

Prejudging a person, place, condition or thing is like talking to everyone about the latest movie that you’ve just watched because you were able to watch it earlier on a premier night. Then these people you told the story to, got nothing to expect anymore because you ruined the element of surprise by telling them the whole story. It sucks!

So, the next time you hear somebody talks about a movie, business, a book, a religion, ghost, aliens, or what ever it is that you don't have an idea. Understand that, you have to allow your ego to be on the side lines and listen or do your research on a subject before you shut it out. God gave us two ears and one mouth to do more listening than talking.

Like a child that couldn’t care less of what could happen if he touch the flame of the candle and when the child gets burned that’s the only time he will know not to touch the flame.

Same goes for relationships and other things in life just go ahead and make friends, fall in love, travel, attend that seminar, watch that movie. And let the chips fall where they may.

Don’t tell people what to expect with a person, let people think for themselves, let them experience it, because that is the best teacher, experience.




“You can’t throw mud at others without dirtying your hands first.”-Master Delpe



From my experience I’ve observed carefully that True leaders or Alpha males are comfortable with themselves. They don’t give a damn about other people. They choose to live their lives by example not by talking about other people.

I remember my dad when I was a little boy I was asking him what he can say about our neighbor who always fight because, I could hear their loud voices everyday as they shout at each other. My dad just shrugged his shoulder and said “Mind your own business anak. Worry about your problems and pagbutihin mo buhay mo and let God deal with our neighbor.” Makes sense.

In our class THE MYTH we discussed about social conditioning and we learned that people are social creatures and they love to relate and share their thoughts. This is a weakness and also their strength.

Just like the paperclip principle. You can use a paperclip to clip a paper(benefit) or open another person's car(harm).

You can choose to talk about negativity about a person or you could choose to talk about good things, happy things, things that makes life exciting and colorful. Things that will improve your life and their life. And it will all start with you.

“The most vital thing in human activity is the necessity of positively refusing to sit in judgment on the activity of another human being. To condemn, criticize, or feel curiosity in the affairs of another, except to wish them God-Speed and that all is well, is not permissible for the real student of life, who sincerely wishes to reach the highest attainment.”-Unveiled Mysteries

Yes, Chemistry is important. But it doesn't have to be "instant."

Yes, Chemistry is important.
But it doesn't have to be "instant."

I read an article last week about the above statement and this is my point of view on that matter.

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I believe love or attraction has no time or space it can be instant or it can take time.

There are people who after a week of dating get married right away and there are some who have been together for five years still haven't tied the not.... Just like there is a mongo seed that grows fast and there is a mango tree that takes time to grow either way, both has its purpose.

People want guarantees that is why they undergo through a lot of unnecessary hurt of trying to explain and logicized things that has been happening in their relationship but it does not exist only God is absolute, humans are not.

It is hard to understand and explain humans and our feelings. All we can do is love each other. Trying to understand will only give you a headache. Believe me. My Dad has been trying to understand my mom for years but he still can't. All these information on the Internet is still not enough to explain it.

If only people use logic alone in their lives, probably explaining it would be easy. But human beings have emotions and feelings and the difference from logic and emotions is light-years.

And just like the ever shifting sands of the beach as they say, change is the only constant thing.

These rules we make could only serve as a guide just like a map in helping us go through this wilderness we call love.

The problem is not attraction it's how people have a limited perspective of it. Instead of trying to explain it, try to work on yourself to become a better person that people are attracted to.

Love is such a complex thing and humans are diverse. You can't put it in a box of rules and definitions, and standardized it, but you must express it outside of that box and let the chips fall were they may. You have to live in the moment. What are you afraid of?

Experiences differs from person to person and circumstances. Generalizing things will make people even more confused. What works for you works for you.

Give value and give love and never mind what happens in the future only God knows what will happen. Let go of all control and live. Carpe Diem!

Exclusivity is not the Love...

“Love is not selective, just as the light of the sun is not selective. It does not make one person special. It is not exclusive. Exclusivity is not the love of God but the "love" of ego. However, the intensity with which true love is felt can vary. There may be one person who reflects your love back to you more clearly and more intensely than others, and if that person feels the same toward you, it can be said that you are in a love relationship with him or her. The bond that connects you with that person is the same bond that connects you with the person sitting next to you on a bus, or with a bird, a tree, a flower. Only the degree of intensity with which it is felt differs.”-Eckhart Tolle

Since everyone is born naked and equal in front of God, human attempts to gain status at the expense of others were misguided and ultimately against God’s plan. The cure for the very human tendency toward ego aggrandizing was to discourage the evil of private property. Instead, everything—from material possessions to partners—was to be held in common.-Carp, Greek Christian philosopher.

Love, Wealth and Success

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said 'I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.'

'Is the man of the house home?', they asked.

'No', she replied. 'He's out.'

'Then we cannot come in', they replied.

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.

'Go tell them I am home and invite them in!'

The woman went out and invited the men in'

'We do not go into a House together,' they replied.

'Why is that?' she asked.

One of the old men explained: 'His name is Wealth,' he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, 'He is Success, and I am Love.' Then he added, 'Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home.'

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. 'How nice!!', he said.

'Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!'

His wife disagreed. 'My dear, why don't we invite Success?'

Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: 'Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!'

'Let us heed our daughter-in-law's advice,' said the husband to his wife.

'Go out and invite Love to be our guest.'

The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, 'Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest.'

Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: 'I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?'

The old men replied together: 'If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!!!!!!'

Criticism

Studies show that 99.9% of people in the entire world love to criticize, judge and prove that they are right and the other person is wrong.

Most of the time they get this habit from their teachers, parents, media, church and environment. The bad news is that people follow them blindly.

There are no bad students only bad teachers.

How can we make the world a better place if instead of building relationships we destroy it and make the other person feel bad.

The whole world lives in fear. Leaders, Organizations, Church, Media, Government use fear to make people follow them.

People will instantly follow you if you make them feel that you love them. It will show through your sub-communication.

Let's make the world a better place by spreading love.

"You can't throw mud at others without dirtying your hands first."