Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Where the Magic Happpens





Sometimes part of our comfort zone is our closest friends.   



That means..




If we really want to learn and develop ourselves we have to look for friends who will push us forward... not friends who holds us back.




'Comfort zone friends' are good to spend time with to chill out and relax but the problem is sometimes it gets too comfortable.




Just like our muscles, if our muscles don't get stretched or enough exercise it loses its flexibility and strength.


You need to stretch and strengthen yourself.


 A ship is meant to be sailed in the rough ocean not just parked with others ships in the dock. ( comfort zone)


And if you really want to grow you have to find friends/teachers who are higher, better or stronger than you.



We don't want an entourage, where you are only the most intelligent, powerful and financially capable in the group. It's a good feeling that you are the most sought after person in your group but actually its a trap..






Because if that happens you will not grow anymore, people will grow with you but you will just remain the same or worse you could get infected by the people around you because you are the only one with the most powerful energy and typically people will get energy from the higher person in the group. (this is very prevalent in organizations where they just look up to the most powerful person and let that strong person do the thinking for them, they  get lazy exercising their power. )




What you want to do, if you want to develop yourself, is to spend time with people who are better, smarter, powerful and richer than you because just by being in their presence will push you higher than you usually are.




A samurai warrior will grow strong if it will not explore outside the village and looks for a master and fight other warriors outside their village. Because, if the warrior will just stay in their village with his 'comfort zone' friends the warrior will not grow enough.




Perhaps, and maybe, that is where the magic happens.





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This is my secret in making money faster and improving my life in some areas faster than the average person.

How to Apply Properly the Law of Association?

This is a simple advice if you want to be rich.

Find 5 friends who is richer than you.



Why?

Because you want to be the lowest earner with the 5 people. So that they could lift you up.

Surround yourself with 5 friends who is better or higher than your income. Because if you spend time with people who have the same income or lower than you are you will adapt those too!

You want to be the lowest earner in the 5 people who you associate with everyday.

That is why there was a time I left my friends who are not making more money than me. Sorry, I stopped spending too much time with them.

I stopped hanging out and spending time with them.

Because for me it is very important at that time for me to make a lot of money. So, I found 5 people who is richer than me and I ask them to mentor me.

Now you know.

FIND 5 PEOPLE WHO IS RICHER THAN YOU.
Apply it now.
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PS if you are the most powerful, rich and skilled person in your group, be afriad, they will pull you down automatically. You want to be part of a group where you are the lowest one and the 5 will naturally pull you up.


PPS if you are the most powerful, rich and skilled person in your group they will pull you down automatically. You want to be part of a group where you are the lower one and the 5 will naturally pull you up.

If you don't believe me try this out.

it is a natural universal law.

Find 5 people who are making lower money than you and spend time with them. If you are the only one making money in your group they will pull you down.

You want to spend time with 5 people who are making more money than you so that they will naturally pull you up.

if ikaw pinaka positive sa group tapos yung lima depressed, magugulat ka nalang isang araw depressed ka na hahaha!

2 comments:

  1. Very well said Coach. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and knowledge. May you continue to reach out and inspire others. Stay blessed.

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  2. It's a great story to read, it makes me relax. Thank you for this story. I will follow up

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