The Gruenfeld Effect

"Because one believes in oneself, one doesn't try to convince others. Because one is content with oneself, one doesn't need others' approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her."

- Lao Tzu

My Chat with the Master Christopher Brian E. Fello

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July 13SirYuri

Bro, anu ba talaga meaning ng self-actualization and Authenticity.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

hehe dapat alam mo yan diba. self-actualization for me is realization of your potential after having met all your needs. like nimbus overdrive. and then reaching out for others to do the same. authenticity is operating without ego. you don't filter your actions based on what other people might think. you are true to the core. you do the action because that is what is true to you. un lng hehe 101 ba to

July 13SirYuri

reaching out? d ba ego din yun? i mean you are assuming that people need what you know?

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

no, reaching out in a sense giving back and sharing what you learned. "labeling" something as ego is ego itself lol.. ako, i don't get too caught up much in the ego analysis, I know what authenticity is and I just focus on that. like not playing not to lose but playing to win is the strategy bro. it's very tricky kase. it's like you need to go through some stuff to increase your level of consciousness and transcend it. like going meta. seeing the forest instead being immersed in the trees AND THEN seeing yourself looking at the forest. any kind of change that is worthy is to be met by resistance. you know that very well. that's the challenge with every movement. but in the end, what works, works. parang interview to ah, dyd mastermind series dvd version

July 13SirYuri

weh...

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

hehe

July 13SirYuri

so are you telling me that you just have to live your life and lead by example?

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

that's the path that im on now, maybe I can contribute more after I have gained more leverage. ikaw you are in a position of a lot of leverage. and we can do that via the project. I think it's gonna evolve into something awesome. who knows

July 13SirYuri

everything makes perfect sense now. So basically you have to lead by example and if people don't like what you do or don't support you or if they don't like you... that's okay... you just do what you love anyway. And let your territorial reality expand and let those people who want to follow you join you and those who don't its alright.

You know what i think you are the best person who should talk about and post stuffs life this i mean Authenticity and EGO. You have more experience in these realm of consciousness than most of us.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

naks naman, tumataba ang puso ko. hahaha baka lumaki ego ko nyan ingat tayo haha. anyways, baka ginagamitan mo ko ng science of influence ha diba pinahiram ko sau un ung advanced. meron ako transcript nun kaya ok lng u can keep the cds, ok sana if you can make a digital copy and distribute sa pp members via download page.blueprint is masyadong advanced para sa average person. ok pa rin, if they start there. unti unti yan maiintindihan kasi you need reference experiences to relate it to.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

here's another thing, any time you are operating from authenticity you are contributing to the positive social energy. everytime you are operating from ego, you are taking from that energy. it's so subtle and sometimes challenging to distinguish, once good point to remember is remove your agendas, just give give give. if most people will do that, if they realize that they are already in abundance they just have to realize it, they will contribute more to the crystallization of abundance for all of us. in all aspects. agendas are fueled by ego, ir operating from scarcity.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

*correction once to one

July 13SirYuri

okay, what about debate? I mean, cge okay na ego mo. Then suddenly somebody challenged your idea? would you defend it?

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

i see. ayos maisshare mo to. regarding someone challenging your idea, that is the resistaning ego in them working to fight, their worldview is being challenged and they feel they need to fight back and protect it, hayaan mo lng, kasi minsan our statements are like computer code that can program the mind. pag masyado forceful and statement, some people feel the need to defend their worldview. hayaan mo nlng. for me debate is useless if fueled by emotion. it gets skewed. be like water. like bamboo, you yield but not surrender. they will eventually realize it as they grow aware of what they are doing. which is "protecting" their world view". which means, how their mind operates, how they deal with the world, and that's a big deal for a person. di ba nga sabi sa blueprint, masisira ang worldview mo. and you rebuild it.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

the way to deal with a debating person is to truly try to understand their worldview, then after understanding it, you lay it out in front of them in relation to what you are saying.

cgurado namang mas advanced ka na in terms of experience and knowledge so you already know where the debating person is coming from.

July 13SirYuri

In the matrix this is what happened to Neo when Morpheus tries to show him what is the matrix is is called Cognitive Dissonance- Cognitive dissonance is an uncomfortable feeling caused by holding conflicting ideas simultaneously.

Which means that your idea of life is different from the view of another so the automatic response is to fight back because that is the INITIAL reaction of humans to fight what is against their beliefs.

Now, how do you know if your idea is TRUE from my idea? Because, I could go all day long to prove my idea to you and you can also go all day and support it with facts and social proof. Then nobody wins right?

July 13SirYuri

By the way what if you know the person has a very dangerous idea Like if it has an idea of blowing up the planet? don't you think its just right to tell him that what he is doing is wrong?

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

what is true for you is true for you. that's the nature of the matrix.

July 13SirYuri

hahaha o nga naman.. it just means to live your life the way you want it and lead by example. So you can't judge and you can't insist your ideas to those people who doesn't share you're reality or how you view your life.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

we had people like that before, hitler etc. and you cannot really control them, just let the natural course of events deal with it. the universe is an excellent computer it seems. everything that happens is for the good of everything/everyone diba.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

yup. they will attack and they will try to bring you down because of envy or whatever ego bs might be prodding them to do that, but that's part of the fun. part of the challenge. if it was too easy where is the fun in that, kaya nga pag nagchechess ako nilalagay ko sa grandmaster level coz I want to improve. btw, i play chess for a reason bro.

July 13SirYuri

Eh what if nga its dangerous na life the corruption here in our country. Can't we be a little self-righteous? to let them know that what they are doing is destructive? I mean man, if we won't act then who will? If we won't do something about our country who will?

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

they are so deep into ego and scarcity. it's ironic na kung sino pa ung mga politiko na mayayaman dito sa atin eh sila pa ung operating from scarcity and greed. lol if we cannot deal with them directly, we have a strategy in chess like an indirect attack, or in hacker terms, going thru a backdoor or making a backdoor. you can try that and make a direct attack on a person but that will create more problems. we can subtly and slowly eat away at that stuff and win in the end just like what you read in I.Confessions. un ang strategy na pinili nila. alala mo pa un.

July 13Christopher Brian E. Fello

what are you planning ba regarding the corruption dito sa pinas? let's lead the youth. wala silang panalo sa sinabi ni rizal.

once the core of Pp is strong enough, we bring in lahat ng matatalinong youth dito sa pinas. through the power of the internet, iba na ang magagawa ng ideas ngayon.

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