Sunday, January 8, 2012

We are not Equal






Look at this picture, this is a perfect example how society has programmed us to generalized things and persons. And because of this dis-empowering social conditioning some people specially teachers seem to treat every person the same.

God created us in his image and likeness but man created inequality. We are not all equal from a open-minded perspective and life is unfair for people who won't teach themselves necessary knowledge to improve their lives.

Not every guy is the same. Not every girl is the same. Not every country is the same it has been scientifically proven that we all have unique finger prints and DNA.

We can't generalize students/people and we cant treat them all the same. We all have different backgrounds, levels of understanding, different experiences in life and relationships.

That's why all you can do is listen to people because giving them advice is sometimes futile, since sometimes or most of the time, you don't really experienced what they have experienced.. and you base your advice from what you have experienced.

Sometimes I just smile whenever I hear priest or pastors who gives advice to people about marriage, relationship or sex when they themselves have not been married. I know, the blind leading the blind.

And also some so called 'experts' on relationships seem to give their advice base only from their experience and they think what they have experienced is the only antidote for every broken heart out there. Unless maybe, this expert have the same DNA as you or the same girlfriend, then you could say you have experienced what he has experienced, and then give your advice, but it never is.

The world is so diverse for us to generalized or standardized things especially when dealing with people and their feelings.

That is also one of the reasons why some families or organizations fail because, they tend to compare the accomplishment of their children or workers to that of another. When the fact is you have to realize that everybody is unique.

All we can do is positively guide and encourage people along the way to have a positive outlook in life and listen in their development and let them learn from their experience.

Nobody really knows what is right for a person even the church or the media does not know, Only God knows. Let's get a hold of ourselves and let people experience life on their own.

Stop gathering information form the outside and start gathering from within. Experience is the best teacher.

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