Yes, Chemistry is important. But it doesn't have to be "instant."

Yes, Chemistry is important.
But it doesn't have to be "instant."

I read an article last week about the above statement and this is my point of view on that matter.

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I believe love or attraction has no time or space it can be instant or it can take time.

There are people who after a week of dating get married right away and there are some who have been together for five years still haven't tied the not.... Just like there is a mongo seed that grows fast and there is a mango tree that takes time to grow either way, both has its purpose.

People want guarantees that is why they undergo through a lot of unnecessary hurt of trying to explain and logicized things that has been happening in their relationship but it does not exist only God is absolute, humans are not.

It is hard to understand and explain humans and our feelings. All we can do is love each other. Trying to understand will only give you a headache. Believe me. My Dad has been trying to understand my mom for years but he still can't. All these information on the Internet is still not enough to explain it.

If only people use logic alone in their lives, probably explaining it would be easy. But human beings have emotions and feelings and the difference from logic and emotions is light-years.

And just like the ever shifting sands of the beach as they say, change is the only constant thing.

These rules we make could only serve as a guide just like a map in helping us go through this wilderness we call love.

The problem is not attraction it's how people have a limited perspective of it. Instead of trying to explain it, try to work on yourself to become a better person that people are attracted to.

Love is such a complex thing and humans are diverse. You can't put it in a box of rules and definitions, and standardized it, but you must express it outside of that box and let the chips fall were they may. You have to live in the moment. What are you afraid of?

Experiences differs from person to person and circumstances. Generalizing things will make people even more confused. What works for you works for you.

Give value and give love and never mind what happens in the future only God knows what will happen. Let go of all control and live. Carpe Diem!